You Get What You Ask For In

Be Your Authentic Self. Your Authentic Self Is Who You Are When You Have No Fear Of Judgment, Or Before The World Starts Pushing You Around And Telling You Who You're Supposed To Be. Your Fictional Self Is Who You Are When You Have A Social Mask On To Please Everyone Else. Give Yourself Permission To Be Your Authentic Self.

When You Get Married, Your Loyalty, First And Foremost, Is To Your Spouse, And To The Family That You Create Together.

There Has Never Been A Merging Of Two Lives Where Significant Problems Of Daily Living Did Not Occur. One Way Or Another, Your Relationship Is Going To Be Affected. The Only Question Is How. There's A Big Difference Between Knowing And Doing. It's Not What Happens Between Partners That Determines The Outcome Of A Relationship, It's How They Handle What Happens. If All You Deal With In Your Relationship Is Problems, Then You Will Have A Problem Relationship. If You Want Your Pound Of Flesh With Full Acknowledgement That You're Right, Your Future Will Be Dim.

Right Now, Make A List Of What You Admire About Yourself- Don't Stop Until You've Filled A Page. Sit And Relish Each Quality And Accomplishment. When You Remember How Much You Have To Be Proud Of, You Don't Need To Envy Others. Instead Of Wallowing In Your Jealousy, Use Your Friends' Accomplishments As Inspiration To Pursue The Life You Want.

If You're Trying To Get Out Of Debt, You Have To Be Willing To Treat Everything As Expendable.