Reading To Children At Night, Responding To

A Pregnant Woman And Her Spouse Dream Of Three Babies--the Perfect Four-month-old Who Rewards Them With Smiles And Musical Cooing,the Impaired Baby, Who Changes Each Day, And The Mysterious Real Baby Whose Presence Is Beginning To Be Evident In The Motions Of The Fetus.

A Family's Responses To Crisis Or To A New Situation Mirror Those Of A Child. That Is To Say, The Way A Small Child Deals With A New Challenge (for Instance, Learning To Walk) Has Certain Predictable Stages: Regression, Anxiety, Mastery, New Energy, Growth, And Feedback For Future Achievement. These Stages Can Also Be Seen In Adults Coping With New Life Events, Whether Positive Or Negative.

Parents Don't Make Mistakes Because They Don't Care, But Because They Care So Deeply.

A Grandchild Is A Miracle, But A Renewed Relationship With Your Own Children Is Even A Greater One.

Attachment To A Baby Is A Long-term Process, Not A Single, Magical Moment. The Opportunity For Bonding At Birth May Be Compared To Falling In Love - Staying In Love Takes Longer And Demands More Work.