I Mean We Know That Some Choice

I've Done A Number Of Studies With Speed Dating And Match.com And What's Interesting Is That You Know We Still Walk Into A Speed Dating Event, You Know, Thinking About What It Is We're Looking For In A Mate And So You Ask People, Like Women Will Say "i'm Looking For Somebody Who Is Really Kind And Sincere And Smart And Funny."

We Are Often In Society Told To Make Decisions In One Of Two Ways. We're Either Told "use Your Gut, Just Go With How You Feel About It And Let That Guide You," Or We're Told To Use Reason - Some Very Deliberative Methodical Process Of Pros And Cons And Really Thinking It Through.

I Used To Go To This Store Called Draeger's And You Had A Little Bit Of That Same Feeling Because This Was A Store That Offered You So Many Varieties, Things You'd Never Contemplated Before, You Know Like 250 Mustards And Vinegars And Over 500 Different Kinds Of Fruits And Vegetables, Or Over 2 Dozen Different Types Of Water.

When I Do Have Choice I Try To Be Very Picky About... Or Shall I Say Choosey About When I Choose. I Don't Automatically Decide That I Must Be The One To Choose Or That It's Important For Me To Make Every Choice In My Life.

Choosing Is A Creative Process, One Through Which We Construct Our Environment, Our Lives, Ourselves.