You Mainly Feel The Way You Think.

We'd Better Work Hard On Getting Rid Of That Must - Other People Must Do What I Want Them To Do!" It's What Makes People Hostile, Nasty, Mean And Combative, And It Leads To Feuds, Wars And Genocide. We'd Better Do Something About That.

The Freudian Tradition Will Never Completely Die Because It Has A Few Good Points. For Example, People Have Motives And Thoughts Of Which They Are Unaware. Most Of Cognitive Therapy Has Now Adopted A Similar Idea. On The Other Hand, The Relationship Part Of Psychoanalysis - Where You Must Have A Deep, Emotional Relationship With The Client - Will, I Think, Get Kicked In The Teeth One Of These Days.

If People Stopped Looking On Their Emotions As Ethereal, Almost Inhuman Processes, And Realistically Viewed Them As Being Largely Composed Of Perceptions, Thoughts, Evaluations, And Internalized Sentences, They Would Find It Quite Possible To Work Calmly And Concertedly At Changing Them.

Needing Leads To Bleeding - To Almost All Inevitable Suffering.

In Fact Most Of What We Call Anxiety Is Overconcern About What Someone Thinks Of You.