We Can Choose The Attitude That Says,

In Marriage It Is Never Having My Own Way. It Is Rather Discovering Our Way.

In A Difficult Marriage, Both Of Us Have Failed Each Other. Even Though One May Be The Major Problem,you Also Have Failed Often In The Way You Have Responded To Them, The Way You Have Treated Them, In The Way You Have Handled Your Hurt And Your Pain.

True Love Cannot Begin Until The "in Love" Experience Has Run It's Course.

The One Who Chooses To Love Will Find Appropriate Ways To Express That Decision Everyday.

I Think Another [myth] Is That Some Marriages Are Just Hopeless. This Is A Common Thing I Hear From People, "well, I Just Think There Are Some Marriages That Are Hopeless, Dr. Chapman, Don't You Agree With That?" I Say I Understand The Feeling, But The Fact Is That There Are No Marriages That Are Hopeless.