I'm Not Sure That Insecurity Is A

I Wish I Could Be Hard And Cynical. That I Could Take Things Slowly, Not Give Too Much Of Myself, Because I'd Be So Frightened Of Getting Hurt That There Wouldn't Be Any Other Way. But No. Every Time I Meet Someone I Dive In Headfirst, Showering Them With Love And Attention, And Hoping That This Time They're Going To Be Different.

Life, Steffi Has Learned, Carries On Around The Pain, Making Room For It, Absorbing It Until It Becomes Part Of The Daily Fabric, Wrapping Itself Around You And Lodging Itself In Your Heart.

Sometimes In Life, You Have To Make Things Happen. That You Can Change Your Life If You're Willing To Let Go Of The Old And Actively Look For The New. That Even If You're On The Right Track, You'll Get Run Over If You Just Sit There.

Marriage Should Be About Fun,” She Says Gently. “it’s About Friendship, And Laughter, And Trust, And Fun. If It’s Not Fun, If You Take It All Too Seriously, What’s The Point? You Know I’ve Been With Andy For Fifteen Years, And The Reason It Still Works Is Because He’s My Best Friend And He Still Makes Me Laugh. Admittedly, Not All The Time, And Often We Get Completely Bogged Down In Work, And The Kids, And Life, But He’s Still The Person I Most Want To Phone When Anything Happens In Life, And He’s Still The Person Who Makes Me Laugh The Most.

I Think Relationships Are Very Difficult. It's Very Easy To Get Swept Away With Excitement, Glamour, And Passion. I Think The Trick Is To Look For Friendship Rather Than Passion.