Codependents Are Reactionaries. They Overreact. They Under-react.

Real Power Comes When We Stop Holding Others Responsible For Our Pain, And We Take Responsibility For All Our Feelings.

Whatever We Try To Control Does Have Control Over Us And Our Life.

The More We Are Focused On Controlling And Changing Others, The More Unmanageable Our Life Becomes. The More We Focus On Living Our Own Life, The More We Have A Life To Live, And The More Manageable Our Life Will Become.

We Have As Much Time As We Need.

We Need To Set Goals For Ourselves. Start Today...if You Don't Have Any Goals, Make Your First Goal Getting Some Goals. You Probably Won't Start Living Happily Ever After, But You May Start Living Happily, Purposefully, And With Gratitude...goals Are Gratitude In Action. They Give Us The Opportunity To Build On What We Already Have. While Achieving Goals Can Be A Lengthy Process, We Can Learn To Be Grateful For Each Stage In The Process Of Setting And Meeting Goals.