When I Feel Very Loved, When I

By Starving Our Children Of Men, We Have Made Them More Vulnerable To The Very Abuse We Are Trying To Prevent.

Here's The Pay Paradox That Why Men Earn More Explains: Men Earn More Money, Therefore Men Have More Power; And Men Earn More Money, Therefore Men Have Less Power (earning More Money As An Obligation, Not An Option). The Opposite Is True For Women: Women Earn Less Money, Therefore Women Have Less Power; And Women Earn Less Money, Therefore Women Have More Power (the Option To Raise Children, Or To Not Take A Hazardous Job).

Perhaps The Most Prevailing Expectation Of Men Is Our Superman Expectation: The Fear We Are Merely Clark Kents Who Won't Be Accepted Unless We Are A Superman.

Both Sexes Allow Men Dentists Inside Our Mouths, But, Well, Have You Ever Let A Man Who Is A Dental Hygienist Inside Your Mouth? The Man Must Earn His Way To Our Private Places In A Way Not Required Of A Woman--he Must Become The Doctor Or The Dentist, Or Forget It.

Our Love For Children Is So Immediate In Part Because We Feel Their Powerlessness Immediately; Conversely, Part Of The Way We Deny Our Love For Men Is By Denying Men's Powerlessness. Too Often We Have Confused Love For Men With Respect For Them, Especially For Their Power To Take Care Of Us - Which Is Really Just Love For Ourselves.