The Typical American Reports Making About 70

I Used To Go To This Store Called Draeger's And You Had A Little Bit Of That Same Feeling Because This Was A Store That Offered You So Many Varieties, Things You'd Never Contemplated Before, You Know Like 250 Mustards And Vinegars And Over 500 Different Kinds Of Fruits And Vegetables, Or Over 2 Dozen Different Types Of Water.

If You Truly Have Expertise - And Expertise Can Be Say A Chess Master Who Has Really Mastered Something Or An Artist Or A Musician Of Some Sort You Know If You Give A Jazz Musician.

So On The One Hand In School You're Teachers Are Constantly Telling You That You Can Be Whatever It Is You Want To Be As Long As You Put Your Mind And Heart To It, And Yet At The Same Time I Was Also Getting The Clear Message Of, Well, What Can You Do Really?

We Also Don't Always Know What We Want. And In Those Cases It Can Actually Make Us Worse Off Because It's Actually Easier To Figure Out What You Want And To Figure Out How The Options Differ If You Have About A Handful Of Them Than If You Have A Hundred Of Them.

Being A Sikh Meant Having To Do What Mom And Dad Said, And Going To Temple, And Mom And Dad Choosing Who I Would Marry. But Going To An American School Taught Me That I Was The One Who's Supposed To Make Those Choices.