The Delight We Experience When We Allow

Play Reaches The Habits Most Needed For Intellectual Growth.

For Those Who Immerse Themselves In What The Fairy Tale Has To Communicate, It Becomes A Deep, Quiet Pool Which At First Seems To Reflect Only Our Own Image; But Behind It We Soon Discover The Inner Turmoils Of Our Soul - Its Depth, And Ways To Gain Peace Within Ourselves And With The World, Which Is The Reward Of Our Struggles.

The Parent Must Not Give In To His Desire To Try To Create The Child He Would Like To Have, But Rather Help The Child To Develop--in His Own Good Time--to The Fullest, Into What He Wishes To Be And Can Be, In Line With His Natural Endowment And As The Consequence Of His Unique Life In History.

Not Only Is Our Love For Our Children Sometimes Tinged With Annoyance, Discouragement, And Disappointment, The Same Is True For The Love Our Children Feel For Us.

To Be Told That Our Child's Behavior Is "normal" Offers Little Solace When Our Feelings Are Badly Hurt, Or When We Worry That Hisactions Are Harmful At The Moment Or May Be Injurious To His Future. It Does Not Help Me As A Parent Nor Lessen My Worries When My Child Drives Carelessly, Even Dangerously, If I Am Told That This Is "normal" Behavior For Children Of His Age. I'd Much Prefer Him To Deviate From The Norm And Be A Cautious Driver!