The Best Years Of Your Life Are

There Are Three Musts That Hold Us Back: I Must Do Well. You Must Treat Me Well. And The World Must Be Easy.

My Rational Emotive Behavior Therapy (rebt) Was One Of The Very Few Therapies That Was Originated Partly Or Largely Because I Wanted To Be Brief And Efficient. And Therefore Right From The Start I Was Active And Directive. I Tried To Show People Some Central Masturbatory Core To Their Philosophy And To Get Them To Work At Changing It Cognitively, Emotionally And Behaviorally.

If I Had Been A Member Of The Academic Establishment, I Could Have Done Other Experiments.

In The Old Days We Used To Get More Referrals, Because People Had Insurance That Paid For Therapy. Now They Belong To Hmos, And We Can Only Be Affiliated With A Few Hmos.

Being Assertive Does Not Mean Attacking Or Ignoring Others Feelings. It Means That You Are Willing To Hold Up For Yourself Fairly-without Attacking Others.