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. . . A Relationship Has A Momentum, It Must Change And Develop, And Will Tend To Move Toward The Point Of Greatest Commitment.

Thinking About Profound Social Change, Conservatives Always Expect Disaster, While Revolutionaries Confidently Anticipate Utopia. Both Are Wrong.

The Sign Of A Good Marriage Is That Everything Is Debatable And Challenged; Nothing Is Turned Into Law Or Policy. The Rules, If Any, Are Known Only To The Two Players, Who Seek No Public Trophies.

Why Do Long Marriages Occasionally Endow Their Inhabitants With A Rare Kind Of Equilibrium Otherwise Almost Unknown In Human Relations? My Guess Is That The Value Of The Moment Has At Last Overshadowed The Long History Of Resentments, Betrayals, And Boredom.

Today's Youth Seem Finally To Have Understood That Only By Freeing Woman From Her Exclusively Sexual Role Can Man Free Himself From His Ordained Role In The Rat-race: That Of The Rat.