Misbehavior And Punishment Are Not Opposites That

If You Want Your Children To Improve, Let Them Overhear The Nice Things You Say About Them To Others.

How Can We Help A Child Change From Undependable To Dependable, From A Mediocre Student To A Capable Student, From Someone Who Won't Amount To Very Much To Someone Who Will Count For Something. The Answer Is At Once Both Simple And Complicated: We Treat A Child As If He Already Is What We Would Like Him To Become.

I Have Great Faith In 'ordinary Parents.' Who Has A Child's Welfare More At Heart Than His Ordinary Parent? It's Been My Experience That When Parents Are Given The Skills To Be More Helpful, Not Only Are They Able To Use These Skills, But They Infuse Them With A Warmth And A Style That Is Uniquely Their Own.

To Sense When A Teenager Needs Understanding And When Misunderstanding Is A Difficult And Delicate Task. The Sad Truth Is That No Matter How Wise We Are, We Cannot Be Right For Any Length Of Time In Our Teenagers' Eyes.

Misbehavior And Punishment Are Not Opposites That Cancel Each Other - On The Contrary They Breed And Reinforce Each Other.