I Think Biologically We Are Attracted To

In A Baby's First Months, The Earliest Patterns Of Intimacy Or Distrust Are Forever Grooved Into His Soul.

If Women Really Want Equality, We Have To Wipe The Slate Clean. It No Longer Matters In The Largest Sense What Men Did To Us For The Last 200 Or 300 Years.

The Debt Of Gratitude We Owe Our Mother And Father Goes Forward, Not Backward. What We Owe Our Parents Is The Bill Presented To Us By Our Children.

For Instance, In Group Therapy, I'll Have People Stand Up, Show Off, Give A Speech About Themselves As Though They've Just Died And Have To Give A Eulogy. Even With This Explicit Permission - Even An Order - To Say Something Nice About Themselves, This Is The Hardest Thing In The World For People To Do. They'd Rather Take Their Clothes Off.

After Sex, Men Fear Too Much Intimacy; They Want To Separate Again. Women Want To Talk, To Continue The Merging, Melting Fusion Into One. Postcoital Conversations Keep The Woman's Power Alive. Through Unconscious Severance, By Falling Asleep, The Man Regains His Self.