Fulfilling The Four Needs In An Integrated

If Our Feelings Control Our Actions, It Is Because We Have Abdicated Our Responsibility And Empowered Them To Do So.

Most People Define Greatness Through Wealth And Popularity And Position In The Corner Office. But What I Call Everyday Greatness Comes From Character And Contribution.

A Personal Mission Statement Becomes The Dna For Every Other Decision We Make.

Innocent Pleasures In Moderation Can Provide Relaxation For The Body And Mind And Can Foster Family And Other Relationships. But Pleasure, Per Se, Offers No Deep, Lasting Satisfaction Or Sense Of Fulfillment. The Pleasure-centered Person, Too Soon Bored With Each Succeeding Level Of "fun," Constantly Cries For More And More. So The Next New Pleasure Has To Be Bigger And Better, More Exciting, With A Bigger "high." A Person In This State Becomes Almost Entirely Narcissistic, Interpreting All Of Life In Terms Of The Pleasure It Provides To The Self Here And Now.

In The Space Between Stimulus (what Happens) And How We Respond, Lies Our Freedom To Choose. Ultimately, This Power To Choose Is What Defines Us As Human Beings. We May Have Limited Choices But We Can Always Choose. We Can Choose Our Thoughts, Emotions, Moods, Our Words, Our Actions; We Can Choose Our Values And Live By Principles. It Is The Choice Of Acting Or Being Acted Upon.