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A Revolutionary Marriage ... [is] One In Which Both Partners Have Work At The Center Of Their Lives And Must Find A Delicate Balance That Can Support Both Together And Each Individually.

Normal Is Absolutely My Least Favorite Word.

Why Do Long Marriages Occasionally Endow Their Inhabitants With A Rare Kind Of Equilibrium Otherwise Almost Unknown In Human Relations? My Guess Is That The Value Of The Moment Has At Last Overshadowed The Long History Of Resentments, Betrayals, And Boredom.

Today's Shocks Are Tomorrow's Conventions.

Thinking About Profound Social Change, Conservatives Always Expect Disaster, While Revolutionaries Confidently Anticipate Utopia. Both Are Wrong.