Today I Don't Want To Live For,

When Someone Disagrees With Me, I Do Not Have To Immediately Start Revising What I Just Said. People Don't Want Me To Always Agree With Them. They Can Sense This Is Phony. They Can Sense I Am Trying To Control Them: I Am Agreeing With Them To Make Them Like Me. They Feel; "i Don't Want To Exist To Like You. I Don't Exist To Like You."

If Your Reaction To Your Partner's Fear-or Any Other Form Of Distress- Is Disdain Or Irritation, You Do Not Want Oneness Or Even Friendship With Your Partner At That Moment.

I Talk Because I Feel, And I Talk To You Because I Want You To Know How I Feel.

Don't Fight A Fact, Deal With It.

Perfectionism Is A Slow Death. If Everything Were To Turn Out Just Like I Would Want It To, Just Like I Would Plan For It To, Then I Would Never Experience Anything New; My Life Would Be An Endless Repetition Of Stale Successes. When I Make A Mistake I Experience Something Unexpected.... When I Have Listened To My Mistakes I Have Grown.