There Are Three Musts That Hold Us

Let's Suppose Somebody Abused You Sexually. You Still Had A Choice, Though Not A Good One, About What To Tell Yourself About The Abuse.

To Err Is Human; To Forgive People And Yourself For Poor Behavior Is To Be Sensible And Realistic.

There's No Evidence Whatsoever That Men Are More Rational Than Women Or That Men Are More Willing To Surrender Their Irrational Beliefs. Both Sexes Seem To Be Equally Irrational.

In A Sense, The Religious Person Must Have No Real Views Of His Own And It Is Presumptuous Of Him, In Fact, To Have Any. In Regard To Sex-love Affairs, To Marriage And Family Relations, To Business, To Politics, And To Virtually Everything Else That Is Important In His Life, He Must Try To Discover What His God And His Clergy Would Like Him To Do; And He Must Primarily Do Their Bidding.

Reality Is Not So Much What Happens To Us; Rather, It Is How We Think About Those Events That Create The Reality We Experience. In A Very Real Sense, This Means That We Each Create The Reality In Which We Live.