Our Strength Will Continue If We Allow

Today I Will Stop Trying To Control My Relationships. I Will Participate At A Reasonable Level And Let The Other Person Do The Same. I Can Let Go, Knowing That The Relationship Will Find Its Own Life-or Not-and That I Don't Have To Do All The Work, Only My Share.

We Can Say What We Need To Say. We Can Gently, But Assertively, Speak Our Mind. We Do Not Need To Be Judgmental, Tactless, Blaming Or Cruel When We Speak Our Truths.

Embrace And Love All Of Yourself - Past, Present, And Future. Forgive Yourself Quickly And As Often As Necessary. Encourage Yourself. Tell Yourself Good Things About Yourself.

If That Person Doesn't Want To Be In Your Life, Just Let Him Or Her Leave.

You Can Clear The Land, Plow The Field, Spread The Fertilizer, And Plant The Corn. But You Cannot Make It Rain. You Cannot Prevent An Early Frost. You Cannot Determine Exactly What Will Happen In Your Life. The Rain May Or May Not Fall, But One Thing Is Certain: You Will Get A Harvest Only If You Planted Something In The Field. It's Important To Do Everything In Our Power To Ensure Our Success, But We Also Need To Let The Universe Take Its Course.