On An Unconscious Level, The Demonization Of

By Starving Our Children Of Men, We Have Made Them More Vulnerable To The Very Abuse We Are Trying To Prevent.

The Money Men Make From Their Willingness To Work The Least Desirable Hours Is Not A Sign Of Discrimination Against Women, But A Sign Of The Willingness Of Mostly Married Men To Lose Sleep To Support The Family As Their Wife Loses Sleep To Feed The Child. A Willingness To Do The Uncomfortable Shifts Is One Reason Married Men Earn More Than Twice What Never-married Men Earn. Men's Contribution, Made At Night, Need Not Be Lost In The Dark.

Laws Are Made With Such Attention To Protecting Women That, If A Man's Constitutional Rights Conflict With A Woman's Protection, His Rights Disintegrate Before Her Protection Disintegrates.

We Have Restricted Humans From Giving 'free' Food To Bears And Dolphins Because We Know That Such Feeding Would Make Them Dependent And Lead To Their Extinction. But When It Comes To Our Own Species, We Have Difficulty Seeing The Connection Between Short-term Kindness And Long-term Cruelty; We Give Women Money To Have More Children, Making Them More Dependent With Each Child And Discouraging Them From Developing The Tools To Fend For Themselves. The Real Discrimination Against Women, Then, Is 'free Feeding'.

Men Are Socialized To Trust Women Until Evidence To The Contrary Surfaces; Women Are Socialized To Be Suspicious Of Men Until An Individual Man Earns Trust.