Life Is Not Primarily A Quest For

No One Can Become Fully Aware Of The Very Essence Of Another Human Being Until He Loves Him. By His Love He Is Enabled To See The Essential Traits And Features In The Beloved Person; And Even More, He Sees That Which Is Potential In Him, Which Is Not Yet Actualized. Furthermore, By His Love, The Loving Person Enables The Beloved Person To Actualize These Potentialities. By Making Him Aware Of What He Can Be And What He Should Become, He Makes These Potentialities Come True.

Love Is The Ultimate And The Highest Goal To Which Man Can Aspire.

Don't Aim At Success — The More You Aim At It And Make It A Target, The More You Are Going To Miss It. For Success, Like Happiness, Cannot Be Pursued; It Must Ensue, And It Only Does So As The Unintended Side-effect Of One's Personal Dedication To A Cause Greater Than Oneself Or As The By-product Of One's Surrender To A Person Other Than Oneself. Happiness Must Happen, And The Same Holds For Success: You Have To Let It Happen By Not Caring About It. I Want You To Listen To What Your Conscience Commands You To Do And Go On To Carry It Out To The Best Of Your Knowledge. Then You Will Live To See That In The Long Run — In The Long Run, I Say — Success Will Follow You Precisely Because You Had Forgotten To Think Of It.

The Salvation Of Man Is Through Love And In Love.

Most Important, However, Is The Third Avenue To Meaning In Life: Even The Helpless Victim Of A Hopeless Situation, Facing A Fate He Cannot Change, May Rise Above Himself, May Grow Beyond Himself, And By So Doing Change Himself. He May Turn A Personal Tragedy Into A Triumph.