In Order To Make Friends You Must

By Criticizing, We Do Not Make Lasting Changes And Often Incur Resentment.

A Barber Lathers A Man Before He Shaves Him.

If We Want To Make Friends, Let's Greet People With Animation And Enthusiasm.

Listen First. Give Your Opponents A Chance To Talk. Let Them Finish. Do Not Resist, Defend Or Debate. This Only Raises Barriers. Try To Build Bridges Of Understanding.

If You And I Want To Stir Up A Resentment Tomorrow That May Rankle Across The Decades And Endure Until Death, Just Let Us Indulge In A Little Stinging Criticism - No Matter How Certain We Are That It Is Justified.