I'm Cautious About A Lot Of Words

A Mother Should Have Some Fantasy About Her Child's Future. It Will Increase Her Interest In The Child, For One Thing. To Turn The Fantasy Into A Program To Make The Child Fly An Airplane Across The Country, For Example, Isn't The Point. That's The Fulfillment Of The Parent's Own Dreams. That's Different. Having A Fantasy - Which The Child Will Either Seek To Fulfill Or Rebel Against Furiously - At Least Gives A Child Some Expectation To Meet Or Reject.

Psychotherapy Theory Turns It All On You: You Are The One Who Is Wrong. If A Kid Is Having Trouble Or Is Discouraged, The Problem Is Not Just Inside The Kid; It's Also In The System, The Society.

If You Are Still Being Hurt By An Event That Happened To You At Twelve, It Is The Thought That Is Hurting You Now.

Follow The Lead Of Your Symptoms, For There’s Usually A Myth In The Mess, And A Mess Is An Expression Of Soul.

Teachers Today Can't Take To A Child.