If You Can't Say Anything Nice, Then

Appearances Are Deceiving.

We Can Easily Represent Things As We Wish Them To Be.

Every One Is More Or Less Master Of His Own Fate.

Better Be Wise By The Misfortunes Of Others Than By Your Own.

Pray Do Not Grieve So; But Go And Take A Stone, And Place It In The Hole, And Fancy That The Gold Is Still Lying There. It Will Do You Quite The Same Service; For When The Gold Was There, You Had It Not, As You Did Not Make The Slightest Use Of It.