If You Ask Men Why They Did

Our Aspirations Are Really For Women To Be In Half The Leadership Roles And Men To Be Doing Half The Work Of Parenting.

We Cannot Change What We Are Not Aware Of, And Once We Are Aware, We Cannot Help But Change.

After My Husband, Dave, Died, I Called My Friend Adam, A Psychologist Who Studies How People Find Meaning In Our Lives, And I Asked Him What, If Anything, I Could Do To Help Myself And My Kids Get Through This. We Started Talking About Resilience, Then Reading About It, Then Talking To Other People Who Had Gotten Through Grief And Other Huge Challenges. In Time, Those Conversations And That Research Helped Me Heal.

But The Upside Of Painful Knowledge Is So Much Greater Than The Downside Of Blissful Ignorance.

I Feel Really Grateful To The People Who Encouraged Me And Helped Me Develop. Nobody Can Succeed On Their Own.