If You Are Still Being Hurt By

The Culture Is Going Into A Psychological Depression. We Are Concerned About Our Place In The World, About Being Competitive: Will My Children Have As Much As I Have? Will I Ever Own My Own Home? How Can I Pay For A New Car? Are Immigrants Taking Away My White World?

The Character Truest To Itself Becomes Eccentric Rather Than Immovably Centered, As Emerson Defined The Noble Character Of The Hero. At The Edge, The Certainty Of Borders Gives Way. We Are More Subject To Invasions, Less Able To Mobilize Defenses, Less Sure Of Who We Really Are, Even As We May Be Perceived By Others As A Person Of Character. The Dislocation Of Self From Center To Indefinite Edge Merges Us More With The World, So That We Can Feel Blest By Everything.

Anytime You’re Gonna Grow, You’re Gonna Lose Something. You’re Losing What You’re Hanging Onto To Keep Safe. You’re Losing Habits That You’re Comfortable With, You’re Losing Familiarity.

Many People Nowadays Who Discover That They Have A Major Symptom, Whether Psychological Or Physical, Begin To Study It. They Get Drawn Very Deeply Into The Area Of Their Trouble. They Want To Know More Than Their Doctor. That's A Curious Thing, And Not At All The Way It Used To Be.

Each Of Us Needs An Adequate Biography: How Do I Put Together Into A Coherent Image The Pieces Of My Life? How Do I Find The Basic Plot Of My Story?