If We Keep Doing What We're Doing,

Innocent Pleasures In Moderation Can Provide Relaxation For The Body And Mind And Can Foster Family And Other Relationships. But Pleasure, Per Se, Offers No Deep, Lasting Satisfaction Or Sense Of Fulfillment. The Pleasure-centered Person, Too Soon Bored With Each Succeeding Level Of "fun," Constantly Cries For More And More. So The Next New Pleasure Has To Be Bigger And Better, More Exciting, With A Bigger "high." A Person In This State Becomes Almost Entirely Narcissistic, Interpreting All Of Life In Terms Of The Pleasure It Provides To The Self Here And Now.

The Greatest Thing You Can Do For Your Children Is Love Your Spouse.

"if I Make Deposits Into An Emotional Bank Account With You Through Courtesy, Kindness, Honesty, And Keeping My Commitments To You, I Build Up A Reserve. Your Trust Toward Me Becomes Higher, And I Can Call Upon That Trust Many Times If I Need To. I Can Even Make Mistakes And That Trust Level, That Emotional Reserve, Will Compensate For It. My Communication May Not Be Clear, But You'll Get My Meaning Anyway. You Won't Make Me "an Offender For A Word." When The Trust Account Is High, Communication Is Easy, Instant, And Effective."

It Is One Thing To Make A Mistake, And Quite Another Thing Not To Admit It. People Will Forgive Mistakes, Because Mistakes Are Usually Of The Mind, Mistakes Of Judgment. But People Will Not Easily Forgive The Mistakes Of The Heart, The Ill Intention, The Bad Motives, The Prideful Justifying Cover-up Of The First Mistake.

The Core Of Any Family Is What Is Changeless, What Is Going To Be There──shared Vision And Values.