If We Don't Change, We Don't Grow.

Growth Demands A Temporary Surrender Of Security. It May Mean A Giving Up Of Familiar But Limiting Patterns, Safe But Unrewarding Work, Values No Longer Believed In, Relationships That Have Lost Their Meaning. As Dostoevsky Put It, "taking A New Step, Uttering A New Word, Is What People Fear Most." The Real Fear Should Be Of The Opposite Course.

With Each Passage Of Human Growth We Must Shed A Protective Structure . We Are Left Exposed And Vulnerable - But Also Yeasty And Embryonic Again, Capable Of Stretching In Ways We Hadn't Known Before.

Being A Pathfinder Is To Be Willing To Risk Failure And Still Go On.

A Restless Vitality Wells Up As We Approach 30.

The Delights Of Self-discovery Are Always Available.