I Want To Be The Most Eligible

All Women Have A Complicated Relationship To Beauty, But As A Transgender Woman It's A Bit More Complicated. There's A Lot Of Pressure To Appear Feminine. When I Was Younger, I Was Most Insecure About My Size, My Angular Features, My Feet, My Hands . At The End Of The Day, It's About Being Comfortable In Your Own Skin, And Being Able To Walk Down The Street And Not Have People Question Your Gender - And, For Me, Being Perceived As A Woman.

Sometimes I Do Just Have To Stop And Hit Myself In The Head With My Diamond-encrusted Vase.

I'm Not A Big Fan Of Identity Politics And Sort Of Picking One Thing And Defining Yourself With It.

In This Society, If A Man Is Called A Woman, That's The Biggest Insult He Could Get...is That Because Women Are Considered Something Less?

I Like To Dress Up But I'm Not So Concerned With Looking Very Sexy, It's Really More The Art Of Dressing.