I Really Felt The Growth Of Myself

It Was Easy To Blame Other People For Treating Me In Ways I Didn't Like, But Now I Was Seeing That I Was The One At Fault. The Only Way You Can Be Mistreated Is By Allowing Yourself To Be Mistreated, And That Was Something I Did Over And Over Again. Somehow, I Needed To Find That Glimmer Of Self-respect, Buried Deep Inside, That Would Allow Me To Say: I Am Never Going To Let That Happen To Me Again. I Needed To Learn How To Stand Up For Myself In A Different Way, But I Didn't Know How.

I Would Never Speak About Specifics In My Own Relationships Because I Think It's Tacky. If You Seriously Want To Know, Listen To The Music.

There Are Certain People That Are Marked For Death. I Have My Little List Of Those That Treated Me Unfairly.

We Had Our Moment [with Marc Anthony] In The Third Or Fourth Year That We Were Married, When We Did Everything Together: We Did "el Cantante," We Did The Tour, We Made All The Music Together, He Produced My Album [2007's Spanish-language "como Ama Una Mujer"]. That Was A Really Beautiful Time For Us.

I Wasn't The Most Popular Girl In Class, I Had My Friends, But I Was Comfortable With Myself. There's Always Those Most Popular Girls And I Wasn't One Of Those.