I Like Dr. Daniel Amen's 18/40/60 Rule:

Self-esteem Does Not Mean Feeling Good All The Time. Self-esteem Means Loving Yourself Even When You Feel Badly...even When You Make A Mistake. It Means Loving Yourself Even When You're Depressed. It Means That You Accept Yourself Fully.

There Is No Right Reaction. There Is Only Your Reaction.

You Don't Have To Get It Perfect, You Just Have To Get It Going. Babies Don't Walk The First Time They Try, But Eventually They Get It Right

Love Would Never B A Promise Of A Rose Garden Unless It Is Showered With A Light Of Faith, Water Of Sincerity, And An Art Of Passion.

Successful People Maintain A Positive Focus In Life No Matter What Is Going On Around Them. They Stay Focused On Their Past Successes Rather Than Their Past Failures, And On The Next Action Steps They Need To Take To Get Them Closer To The Fulfillment Of Their Goals Rather Than All The Other Distractions That Life Presents To Them.