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Figure Out Who You Are Separate From Your Family, And The Man Or Woman You're In A Relationship With. Find Who You Are In This World And What You Need To Feel Good Alone. I Think That's The Most Important Thing In Life. Find A Sense Of Self Because With That, You Can Do Anything Else.

Because I Am A Bad Girl, People Always Automatically Think That I Am A Bad Girl. Or That I Carry A Dark Secret With Me Or That I'm Obsessed With Death. The Truth Is That I Am Probably The Least Morbid Person One Can Meet. If I Think More About Death Than Some Other People, It Is Probably Because I Love Life More Than They Do.

Brad Got Me This Great Thing For Christmas. It's A Bookshelf That Has A Book On Every Religion. That's How We Plan To Raise Our Kids. Teach Them About All Religions. They Can Pick One Or Be A Student Of All Of Them. We'll Celebrate Kwanzaa For Our Girl. We'll Celebrate Moon And Water Festivals For Our Boys. We'll Take Them To Temples In Certain Countries. Also To Church.

I'm Looking Very Much Forward To Growing Older. I Want To Be An Exhausted Older Woman But With A Very Full Life Behind Me And One Still Going.

Don't Fit In, Don't Sit Still, Don't Ever Try To Be Less Than What You Are...