Give The Other Person A Fine Reputation

Criticism Is Futile Because It Puts A Person On The Defensive And Usually Makes Them Strive To Justify Themselves. Criticism Is Dangerous, Because It Wounds A Person's Precious Pride, Hurts Their Sense Of Importance, And Arouses Resentment.

Be Sympathetic With The Other Person's Ideas And Desires.

The Most Important Thing In Life Is Not Simply To Capitalize On Your Gains. Any Fool Can Do That. The Important Thing Is To Profit From Your Losses. That Requires Intelligence, And Makes The Difference Between A Man Of Sense And A Fool.

I Once Succumbed To The Fad Of Fasting And Went For Six Days And Nights Without Eating. It Wasn't Difficult. I Was Less Hungry At The End Of The Sixth Day Than I Was At The End Of The Second. Yet I Know, As You Know, People Who Would Think They Had Committed A Crime If They Let Their Families Or Employees Go For Six Days Without Food; But They Will Let Them Go For Six Days, And Six Weeks, And Sometimes Sixty Years Without Giving Them The Hearty Appreciation That They Crave Almost As Much As They Crave Food.

A Barber Lathers A Man Before He Shaves Him.