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Trust Your Gut Feeling About Things, Listen To What Others Are Saying, And Look At The Results Of Your Actions. Once You Know The Truth, You Can Set About Taking Action To Improve. Everyone Will Be Better For It.

Success Depends On Getting Good At Saying No Without Feeling Guilty. You Cannot Get Ahead With Your Own Goals If You Are Always Saying Yes To Someone Else's Projects. You Can Only Get Ahead With Your Desired Lifestyle If You Are Focused On The Things That Will Produce That Lifestyle.

Think Of Fear As A 2-year-old Child Who Doesn't Want To Go Grocery Shopping With You. Because You Must Buy Groceries, You'll Just Have To Take The Two Year Old With You. Fear Is No Different. In Other Words, Acknowledge That Fear Exists But Don't Let It Keep You From Doing Important Tasks.

When You Accomplish A Goal, Don't Cross It Out. Instead, Write 'victory' Next To It And Move On To The Next One. This Way, Whenever You Have A Bad Day, All You Have To Do Is To Review Your Victories To Feel Good About Yourself.

The Meaning Of Self-esteem Is To Feel Lovable And Capable. As Parents, We Must Love Our Children Unconditionally And Give Them A Sense Of Being Nurtured. That's The Lovable Part. Then, We Must Provide Structure - Rules, Boundaries, Daily Or Weekly Household Tasks That Give Them A Sense They Are Making A Contribution. That's What Helps Kids Grow Up Feeling Capable.