Everyone Has To Decide For Themselves What

Ironically, People Who Suppress The Mini-confrontations For Fear Of Conflict Tend To Have Huge Conflicts Later, Which Can Lead To Separation, Precisely Because They Let Minor Problems Fester. On The Other Hand, People Who Address The Mini-conflicts Head-on In Order To Straighten Things Out Tend To Have The Great, Long-lasting Relationships.

For Every Mistake That You Learn From You Will Save Thousands Of Similar Mistakes In The Future, So If You Treat Mistakes As Learning Opportunities That Yield Rapid Improvements You Should Be Excited By Them. But If You Treat Them As Bad Things, You Will Make Yourself And Others Miserable, And You Won't Grow.

I Believe That Our Society's "mistake-phobia" Is Crippling, A Problem That Begins In Most Elementary Schools, Where We Learn To Learn What We Are Taught Rather Than To Form Our Own Goals And To Figure Out How To Achieve Them. We Are Fed With Facts And Tested And Those Who Make The Fewest Mistakes Are Considered To Be The Smart Ones, So We Learn That It Is Embarrassing To Not Know And To Make Mistakes. Our Education System Spends Virtually No Time On How To Learn From Mistakes, Yet This Is Critical To Real Learning.

I Think So Many People Are Reactive... They See Things In A Short Term Way They're Right Up Against It.

So I Learned That The People Who Make The Most Of The Process Of Encountering Reality, Especially The Painful Obstacles, Learn The Most And Get What They Want Faster Than People Who Do Not. ... In Short, I Learned That Being Totally Truthful, Especially About Mistakes And Weaknesses, Led To A Rapid Rate Of Improvement And Movement Toward What I Wanted.