Choosing Safety Is A Choice Of Life

In Brief, We Do More Research On Men In Prison, Men In The Military, And Men In General Than We Do On Women For The Same Reason We Do More Research On Rats Than We Do On Humans.

Our Love For Children Is So Immediate In Part Because We Feel Their Powerlessness Immediately; Conversely, Part Of The Way We Deny Our Love For Men Is By Denying Men's Powerlessness. Too Often We Have Confused Love For Men With Respect For Them, Especially For Their Power To Take Care Of Us - Which Is Really Just Love For Ourselves.

And Then In 1956 Or 1957 My Family Went Over To Europe And I Moved Over With Them, And Immediately People In Europe Thought My Perspective On That Issue Was 100% Correct.

Women's Liberation And The Male Midlife Crisis Were The Same Search--for Personal Fulfillment, Common Values, Mutual Respect, Love. But While Women's Liberation Was Thought Of As Promoting Identity, The Male Midlife Crisis Was Thought Of As An Identity Crisis.

In America And In Most Of The Industrialized World, Men Are Coming To Be Thought Of By Feminists In Very Much The Same Way That Jews Were Thought Of By Early Nazis. The Comparison Is Overwhelmingly Scary.