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When A Dad Admits He Is Wrong Or Asks For Help, He Allows The Child To See Him- Or Herself As Adequate Even When She Or He Is Also Wrong. It Encourages Children To Make Suggestions And, Therefore, To Discover Their Creativity Because They Have A Chance Of Making A Contribution.

On A Deeper Level, If Our Sons Are Learning They Are Obscene, Disgusting, And Untrustworthy, Is This The Best Preparation For Fatherhood? And Is It The Best Preparation For Becoming A Mother - To Feel This Way About Her Son?

In America And In Most Of The Industrialized World, Men Are Coming To Be Thought Of By Feminists In Very Much The Same Way That Jews Were Thought Of By Early Nazis. The Comparison Is Overwhelmingly Scary.

Men Rarely Worry About Using Or Being Used Because All Relationships Work That Way. A Man Perceives Himself As Owning And Being Owned By A Woman. Use Is A Dirty Word Only When Theres An Imbalance In The Relationship.

It Is Important For A Father Who Feels Pushed Away [by The Mom] To Say, In Effect, When You Do That, I Feel Unwanted As A Father, Or I Feel My Rough-housing Is Not Bad Parenting; It's My Contribution To Helping Our Child Take Risks. Women Cannot Hear What Men Do Not Say.